Things to Never Worry About While You are out on a Date

If I asked you to rate the level of stress and nervousness you experience before a job interview on a scale of zero to ten, with zero being none and ten being too much to handles, you would probably pick a number anywhere between six and eight.  Now, what if I asked you to do the same thing, but this time in regards to a date.  Most of you will definitely pick ten; some of you may even me a number off the charts.  We all know how stressful and nerve-wracking a date can be, however there are ways to set your mind at ease, and come down to a lower number on the scale.

One thing many of you are not realizing is that you are worrying about downright stupid things before and on a date. First and foremost, you have to realize and understand, he or she has asked YOU out, meaning; they are already interested in you.  All they want is a chance to get to know you a little better, and of course, give you the chance to get to know them.  Here is a list of things you should never worry about while you are on a date. And, if this doesn’t help you relax, there is always alcohol. Just kidding!

 

1. Do not worry so much about what you are wearing. If anything the more comfortable you are the better! Additionally, no one cares what name brand you are wearing. Ladies, when you turn around, he is checking our your butt, not trying to figure out how much money you have.

2. Do not obsess about where things are headed. Go into the date being optimistic, but have no expectations. This helps you with stress in addition to leaving you with no disappointments. Be in the moment at ALL times and just have fun!

3. Do not worry about what lingerie you’re wearing. If your guy ends up spending the night over at your place, I can assure he does not care if your bra matches your underwear. Most likely he won’t even notice, since he will be too focused on getting it off.

4. Do not worry about his desires for the future. This is NOT the time to question whether or not he wants kids, or how long it will take him to propose. This is just a part of the code of dating, and as you all should already know, you leave those conversations for a more appropriate time.

And, the biggest of all:

5. Do not stress about who will be paying for dinner. Each person has his or her own opinions about this subject, but the way I do it is, when the check comes, I leave it alone.  You and your date might be having an intimate conversation, so don’t ruin it just because the server wants you out.  When the time is right, I might offer to pay, but on the first day – especially, if he asked me out – I do not pay.

 

So, let go of all your worries and just have a good time!